Question No. 4 & 10 , pains me and i can't stop thinking about it.

I'm the eldest and this will be the 1st marriage in the family. I did not know what are my Mak's & Pak's thoughts and feelings of "giving me away". They might not show it but i know that they are missing me already. This is affirmed by MR H when my Mak called his MAMA and eventhough it was a casual talk, there was a tinge of sadness in her voice. I was aware about their conversation because My Mak wanted to talk about the bedroom furniture but i wasn't there to witness it. Lucky, if not i will be crying buckets.

I am very close to my Mak. I could tell her about my feelings and whatever choices or decision that i have to make, i will ask for her opinion. Yup, even choosing my own undergarments, i will ring her up and  ask her whether i should buy it or not.

She supported my decision when i decided to enter school after working full-time for 2 years.

She came running to me when i had nightmares a couple of weeks back. 

She cooked my favourite dish most of the time.

She is always here, nursing me to health, feeding me good food and making me happy. Yet sometime i did not appreciate her at all. I will disobey her and be rude to her. I know it is wrong to ignore her calls and i do feel guilty about it. I am sorry Mak and this 12 days, i promise to be an obedient daughter. I will answer your call and listen to you attentively.  Likewise to my Pak, i will be the best child to you and obey your instructions.

We all take our parents for granted and did not appreciate them. Let's once a day, make our parents happy by helping them with the housework, serving them coffee, heed their advice etc.

You never know that it might be too late..

I always pray, "Ya Allah panjangkan umur kedua ibu-bapaku, berikan mereka kesihatan, murahkan rezeki mereka dan jadikanlah aku anak yang solehah"